|  Holy
        Mountain | MOSUO "MATRIARCHAL" PEOPLES'
        TERRITORY |  Lugu
        Lake | 
      
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 Island with Temple |  | 
      
        |  | The principles of Mosuo social structure
        have been extensively elaborated on page 1. Unfortunately for many it was written in
        German. To have it translated in the short run you may try Google Translation Service. In
        the mean time I will give some summaries in English |  | 
      
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 MeiMei |  | 
      
        |  Daily
        stroll of Old Women(Grandmothers)
 | SUMMARY OF MOSUO FAMILY STRUCTURE Clans are organized according to the female lineage. Grandma is the
        head. She decides in important cases. Wealth, possession and money are in the hands of the
        women. Men get pocketmoney. For bigger spendings ("a new motorbike") men have to
        ask permission + money from Grandma.  |  Together
        with one of the Elderly Uncles | 
      
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 A hostel |  | 
      
        |  | The most important male is Grandma's
        brother ("Elderly Uncle"). He is responsible for men affairs. Especially the
        education of children is his territory |  | 
      
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 Man demonstrating climbing the wall to his beloved |  | 
      
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        isn't it? | Relationships between women and men are
        based on love and freedom of choice. Men have to do effort to conquer the heart of a
        woman. Women have a room of themselves where they receive their lover. Relationships may
        change, long term ones seem to be preferred. However, women can reject a man any time. Men
        sleep either in a dormitory or (the oldest) have a small room of themselves. Both in the
        house of their maternal family. At night most go out to spend the night with their lover,
        but have to be back before sunrise  |  | 
      
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 MeiMei already "impressed" by my call to her! |  | 
      
        |  | There exist a collective responsibility
        with regard to the children. The latter belong to the clan. Biological fathers have no
        special rights e.g. are often not known. However, in recent times there are some
        monogamous families in the villages  |  | 
      
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        |  | The main street along the shore of the
        lake.  |  | 
      
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        Lotus as the symbol of the Cosmic Womb | 
      
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 The gate of our host's house |  | 
      
        |  | Women and men share the work equally. Women
        also work on the land. Only where muscle power is needed the men take over. Other areas
        where men take the lead are herding and fishing, traditional healing /"Dada")
        and political administration of the larger area, extra-territorial activities e.g. trade
        with the outside world and religion. While in ancient times the Goddess might have been
        prominent, Mosuo have accepted (patriarchal!) Buddhism as their faith  The
        "symbol with the breasts" has little to do with matriarchy ( as suggested in the
        book "Matriarchy in Southern China" of H.Göttner Abendroth) but represents the
        "auspicious sign of the chakravarta (or God/King).... a symbol that originally may
        have had a link to the MotherGoddess, but for centuries being the dominent motif of the
        lama's.(LINK: Bön-Tibetan Buddhism) .  |  Grandmothers'
        House | 
      
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 | Both women and men express their satisfaction
        with their lives. Women are at the center, while men have a shared responsibility,
        although women complain that the latter aren't much interested in doing homework......
        This should give even feminists food for thought! In recent times the Mosuo concept seems
        to erode. The outside world proves to be too powerful. On the other hand our decaying
        Western societies could very well benefit from a "mother-centered society". I
        elaborated on this issue many times | 
      
        |  The
        lady, the home altar and the stove. More pictures about the Mosuo house on the LINK
        Kunming page | We were tremendously lucky to be able to
        visit the oldest Grandmother of the Mosuo, the GrandGrandmother so to speak. |  | 
      
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        |  | Son and Daughter Pillar in Grandmothers'
        room. They apparently are equally valued! Grandmother said: our house "rests on the
        sons and the daughters" |  | 
      
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        |  | Religious shrine with oven, the sacred
        place for the Mosuo |  | 
      
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        |  "Our"
        lady encircling it with her prayer mill |  |  Igniting
        the (holy) fire | 
      
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        |  | The daily! evening dance. We had the
        impression that the ladies weren't that enthusiastic and moreover, they weren't very young
        anymore. The younger probably seek different aims in life. The decay might greatly be
        influenced by commercialism (imposed on the Mosuo by the government). Very soon only
        folklore for tourists is left |  | 
      
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 How a failed photo has its own charm |  | 
      
        |  | Anyway, we were happy to be there having
        the unique opportunity to at least have some impression how it once was. |  | 
      
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        |  | The second round of the dance where
        spectators could join. I also did it. MeiMei has it on video. It will be put on youtube
        soon. |  | 
      
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 Really too much "honor" |  |